With three kids, we are very used to the 'divide and conquer' method of parenting. Kid A needs to be here, Kid B needs to be there... Who is going to take care of drop off/pick up?
This week has been the most hectic of the whole school year, and without teamwork, we easily could have crashed and burned. Between Wednesday and Saturday, we had: a Kindergarten Graduation, two birthday parties, a dance rehearsal, finishing up the front porch (painting and staining), an out of state visit from Grampy, the school picnic, and the dance recital. Oh, and our two jobs.
By Sunday, a meltdown could have occurred and would have been justified. We needed a chance to take it easy and unwind. Nothing planned, no 'To Do Lists.' Today was the perfect opportunity to do so... but it meant splitting up into a Girls' Day vs. Boys' Day.
It ended up working out for everyone involved.
Dave and his brother had made plans to take Liam and Nick to the Thomas the Train event, taking place at the
Edaville USA railway. It's like a mini Storyland, with all sorts of kiddie rides. Besides the carousel and other rides, the main event is a train ride through the park on a train led by THE Thomas the Train. Anyone with a 2-3 year old boy knows that Thomas is all the rage, and Liam and Nick were no exception.
Since the girls are not into Thomas the Train, I suggested a trip to the beach and they were thrilled. Green Harbor is a sandy beach (no rocks whatsoever, unlike Rexhame) and the water is usually much warmer than the other Marshfield beaches. However, it requires parking in a lot several blocks from the beach, and the walk to/from the beach is a pain with three kids. With only two, I was willing to make the sacrifice. We gathered the boogie boards and sand toys, stopped by Dunkin Donuts for an iced coffee (a must when sitting in the hot sand) and headed on our way.
After the beach, we took our wet and sandy selves over to Katelynn's house for a family birthday party. (Amanda and Katelynn have known each other since they were one, so we are practically family and they didn't mind the sand!) It was so nice to see the three girls playing together while I had girl time with the women. They spent hours alternating between the pool and playing "Super Spy" with the walkie talkies.
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| BFF's | |
We stayed for hot dogs & hamburgers, cake & gifts. It really was the perfect day. (But the best part? They didn't even put up a fight when I announced that we had to stop for a week's worth of grocery shopping on the way home!)
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| Katelynn turned 8. |
Meanwhile, in Carver, MA, Dave and Liam - along with Jason, Angelina and Nick - were having a blast at the Edaville USA Railroad. Once per year, the park transorms the railroad/amusement park into a Thomas the Train event. Having only had girls before, we never had the desire to go. When Jason suggested it this year, Dave was all over it. We told Liam just one day in advance. This morning, he told us excitedly where he was going. He totally got it and couldn't have been any more excited to have Daddy all to himself.
This morning, Liam said,"I'm going to Edaville and I'm going to hold
Nick's hand so he doesn't get scared." I guess he meant it.
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| Cousins holding hands |
Dave said that Liam wanted to go on all of the rides alone. This
didn't surprise me at all, since he is fully into the "I can do
everything myself" stage. Here's proof...
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| So independent! |
You think I'm kidding? Look at this ride. Every kid has a parent with them... except Liam, sitting in the last car.
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| Too cool for Daddy! |
In the picture above, Dave said he kept trying to get Liam to turn around for a picture but he wouldn't. It's almost as if you can hear him saying,"Da-ad! Come on, I'm with my FRIENDS. Leave me alone!!"
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| Nick and Liam - two peas in a pod |
So, now at 4:30 pm on a Sunday evening, my house is a mess. The laundry is piling up. The dishwasher needs to be unloaded. Dinner has to be made.
However, the kids are happy (and sufficiently tired out.) They are alternately practicing piano and playing nicely together. Dave is staining the deck. The washer is beeping at me, telling me to switch the clothes to the dryer.
But tonight we can go to bed knowing that we had some nice family time and made some great memories. Tomorrow is the last day of school, and we have Amanda's 2nd grade picnic to go to ... followed by meeting friends at the beach in the afternoon. The housework will have to be done in between those things, but having today as a 'rest day' makes it all worth it.
I couldn't be happier that it is FINALLY summer... and we don't have much planned. If you need us, we'll be at the beach.